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  • Join the Conversation: Help Us Explore Anabaptist Rites of Passage for Boys

    Join the Conversation: Help Us Explore Anabaptist Rites of Passage for Boys


    Mennonite Men is gathering information on rites of passage for boys from an Anabaptist perspective. We want to explore the ways that Mennonites have or want to honor boys coming of age in meaningful ways. This could be through the giving of gifts, creating ceremonies, organizing special trips, words of blessing and more. Mennonite Men recognizes that this topic is of interest for a wide range of parents, families, and boys, and that there is not a goal of a singular approach to offering rites of passage that works for everyone. In particular what might be unique about an Anabaptist approach? Perhaps you have ideas.

    This growing interest in rites of passage for boys has led the JoinMen committee and the full board of Mennonite Men to discuss and create an online survey about boys rites of passage. Below is a link to this online survey. We hope many will participate in the survey. The more responses we get the better. Anyone is welcome to fill out the survey, and we also hope that many men will complete the survey.

    Find the survey here

    Jon Zirkle, Co-Director of Mennonite Men


  • Why Oak Flat Matters: A Mennonite Reflection on Sacred Land

    Why Oak Flat Matters: A Mennonite Reflection on Sacred Land

    In February I spent a week doing prayerful accompaniment at Oak Flat (Chi’Chil Bildagoteel) in Arizona, sacred land of the Western Apache. Sarah Augustine and the Coalition to Dismantle the Doctrine of Discovery encouraged Mennonite Men to pursue training to accompany Apache Stronghold as they advocate for the protection of Oak Flat and their religious freedom. I did the training and have served on the accompaniment team. This February I joined a Mennnonite teammate at Oak Flat for daily prayer walks, camping on the land, communicating with and supporting Apache Stronghold, and experiencing God’s creation firsthand.

    Each time I’ve gone to Oak Flat has been transformative. For a Midwesterner it has taken multiple days, multiple visits, and learning from the Apaches to get acclimated and begin to realize just how full of life this sacred land truly is. Even without verbal explanations, simply being at Oak Flat inspires gratitude, reverence, and prayer. That said, if Apache Stronghold had not shared history and background with me, I would not even begin to understand the depth of its sacredness.

    Photo: campsite occupied by the author and other allies from The Coalition to Dismantle the Doctrine of Discovery. Photo credit: Tim Nafziger

    As a white male settler and a visitor, no one owes it to me to teach me all the facts, history, and symbolism of this place. I have been taught enough and have personally experienced enough to have my heart swell with love for God’s creation as experienced here. My heart breaks at the thought of this land being transferred to a foreign mining company, knowing this land would collapse into a crater and Apaches would be cut off from coming here. Oak Flat is considered by Apaches to be a female mountain, a source of water, food, medicine, shade, a home to many creatures and to angels. Ancestral remains are buried in this land. Ancient petroglyphs carved on canyon walls are still visible. Important ceremonies and prayers take place here, ceremonies where Apache creation stories are reenacted. Boys and girls come here for coming of age rituals to be oriented and welcomed into adulthood and more fully into their community. This is a place of storytelling, family reunions. If Chi’Chil Bildagoteel is destroyed, Apache religious practice is destroyed forever.

    Oak Flat contains low spots where water sometimes collects, allowing large Emory Oak trees to grow. Some of the tree trunks are three and four feet in diameter. Curved and wide-spreading branches hang low, inviting people and birds and other creatures to find respite in their shade. These trees are sometimes referred to as ‘grandmother oaks’ and said to be between 300 and 600 years old. I imagine the bumps, curves, and scars on their trunks have many stories to tell. In the summer these giant oaks produce acorns gathered by Apaches as a food source. I have had the pleasure of being offered delicious acorn soup made from acorns collected at Oak Flat. These abundant acorns not only feed people, they also feed acorn woodpeckers, orioles, jays, and javelina. I have thoroughly enjoyed seeing hawks, ravens, towhees, cardinals, finches, hummingbirds, and small lizards rest in their branches.

    Settlers like me may not have trees nearby that were alive for hundreds of years, providing food to feed our community. We likely don’t have trees under which our people gathered for dance, prayer, family reunions, and birthdays for hundreds of years. And, I would wager, we likely don’t have trees that our people intentionally let grow for hundreds of years without cutting down for lumber. We likely don’t fully understand the gratitude held by indigenous peoples, don’t regularly thank God for trees that give us food, shade, shelter, and home to birds. Our Apache sisters and brothers do.

    What if we Anabaptist Christians learned to view trees with a kind of reverence and kinship that led to protecting them, letting them live to old age? What might we learn about God by caring for oak trees, fine examples of God’s creation? Have we pondered the importance of trees named in the Bible?

    Join me, join Mennonite Men, join Apache Stronghold as together we consider the love of God the Creator shown by creation. May we learn that places, mountains, trees, people, places of flowing waters have meaning and significance beyond their utility, that God’s special places can’t be destroyed and simply recreated elsewhere.

    I hope we as Christians learn and tell stories about trees, find shelter under trees as a place to pray to God, and inspire children to enjoy trees.

    Join Mennonite Men in remembering Oak Flat. Pray for Oak Flat, its Apache defenders, and for the Supreme Court justices who are considering whether to hear the case of Apache Stronghold.


  • Mennonite Men Awards $40,000 JoinHands Grant to Indonesian Light Church for Building Purchase

    Mennonite Men Awards $40,000 JoinHands Grant to Indonesian Light Church for Building Purchase

    The Mennonite Men Board has approved a $40,000 grant through the JoinHands program to support Indonesian Light Church of Mosaic Mennonite Conference in purchasing the building they currently occupy. This grant will help the church secure a permanent home for its growing congregation, allowing them to continue serving their community and expanding their outreach to new immigrants in the area.

    Steve Kriss, Executive Conference Minister of Mosaic Mennonite Conference, expressed deep gratitude for the spirit of generosity that has fueled several grants to the Conference. He highlighted the significant role that Eastern District played in investing in Mennonite Men’s JoinHands initiative, which has helped fund projects across the nation.

    Indonesian Light Church, with a membership of 100, serves a vibrant and growing immigrant community in Philadelphia, PA.

    Philadelphia is a hub for new immigrants from around the world, including Indonesia, where many come seeking refuge from political unrest and religious persecution, especially those of Christian faith. The church has become an essential resource for these new arrivals, offering a place of worship, support, and fellowship. The need for a permanent space has become even more urgent as Indonesian Light Church continues to grow, with new members joining almost every week.

    The opportunity to purchase the building they currently occupy came as a rare blessing—a chance to secure a well-maintained property that will serve as a long-term home for their ministry. ‘We decided to buy this church building because it was a rare opportunity to secure a good property that was in great shape,’ said a church representative. ‘This will allow us to continue serving our expanding community.’

    ‘We are deeply grateful to Mennonite Men for awarding Indonesian Light Church the JoinHands Grant of $40,000 to help us purchase our first church building,’ said Hendy Matahelemual, pastor of Indonesian Light. ‘As an immigrant community in the U.S., a church building is more than just a place of worship—it is a safe space for gathering, a community hub, and a home where we can grow together in faith and fellowship. This support means the world to us, and we are forever thankful for this incredible blessing.’

    With the $40,000 grant from Mennonite Men, Indonesian Light Church is one step closer to securing their future and continuing their mission of faith, fellowship, and support for immigrants in Philadelphia. The congregation looks forward to the next chapter of their journey and the continued partnerships that will help sustain their ministry.

    For more information about the JoinHands program or Mennonite Men, or to contribute to to future JoinHands grants, please visit MennoniteMen.org/JoinHands.


  • Finding Connection: Young Men, Faith, and Community

    Finding Connection: Young Men, Faith, and Community

    ​Recently, I went on a walk with several men in their 30s who had attended a Mennonite Men’s retreat I helped lead in November 2024. They had arranged the meetup themselves via group text, eager to reconnect and continue building community. We walked and talked for nearly an hour, engaging in deep conversation.

    I’m excited to see these men taking the initiative to foster meaningful friendships. Many younger men today lack in-person interaction, and some struggle to form friendships at all. This challenge isn’t exclusive to men—I’ve spoken with many young adults, both male and female, who find it difficult to make and sustain friendships.

    These kinds of gatherings may seem surprising, given the stereotype that men avoid personal conversations. Similarly, concerns are often voiced—especially by older Mennonites—about young people disengaging from the church. While I understand their concerns, I also have questions. Are we, as a church, inviting young men into conversations that feel relevant? What topics foster connection and trust across generations?

    During our walk, one participant biked slowly alongside us. As we strolled through the woods and past calming waters, we checked in on each other’s lives. The biker, who was single, shared his experiences with online dating, sparking a lively discussion. Several men spoke about their own experiences, comparing dating apps, discussing their pros and cons, and offering advice.

    I admitted that I had never used online dating—a statement that made me feel like an outlier among Millennials. Still, participating in the conversation was insightful. Online dating is a reality for many Mennonite men, young and old. I even know Mennonites in their 80s who have found it helpful.

    What I observed in this conversation—and in the retreat itself—is that men want connection. They want to talk, exchange ideas, and build relationships. Young men are no exception. If we long for more connection within our congregations, have we fully considered our settings, formats, and discussion topics? What feels relatable and safe to younger generations may seem unfamiliar or even intimidating to older ones, and vice versa.

    By creating intentional spaces for young adults to share their experiences, we foster mutual trust, friendship, and faith formation. Perhaps we might even see greater young adult participation in Mennonite congregations. With a spirit of care and curiosity, faith communities can engage meaningfully with today’s realities—perhaps even discussing topics like online dating in small groups and sermons. In doing so, we live out our faith in ways that resonate across generations.


  • Faith and Forestry in the Central Hardwoods Region

    Faith and Forestry in the Central Hardwoods Region

    ​Growing up I had been provided opportunities to play and work outdoors in forested settings. Whether the oak-hickory forests of southern Michigan where my parents owned a cottage, or the forested slopes of the Four Corners Region of the Southwest where my family resided several times during my adolescent years. The latter experiences shaped my intention to pursue a professional forestry degree in the west and then work for public land agencies in the Rocky Mountain region.

    During my undergraduate studies I worked for a federal land agency during weekends and summers as a temporary employee. The working experiences I had, while valuable, caused me to reassess by life goals and how my Mennonite Anabaptist values might play a role. As a result, I took a two-year break prior to my senior year to explore ways I might serve the church within the context of my future professional endeavors. This led me to working with Amigo Centre, a Mennonite-affiliated camp in southern Michigan, as their land manager. During this break from undergraduate studies in the late-1970’s, I had the opportunity to begin planting trees on a tract of land my family had acquired at the north end of Goshen, Indiana. Forty years later this tract became part of the Pathways Retreat. (Image right: 60-year-old white pine planting- Amigo Centre)

    From these early experiences emerged my life mission: ‘To show persons their integral relationship with the building of God’s kingdom and the dynamics of His Creation’. I pursued this mission by directing my vocation as a professional forester toward working with private landowners— both individuals and Mennonite organization-owned properties. This has included a forty-eight-year relationship with Amigo Centre stewarding their land—including a sixty-year-old white pine planting and, more recently, using forestry practices to rehabilitate their native oak-hickory forestland severely-damaged from a recent straight-line windstorm.

    I also had the privilege of providing forest resources education to adult audiences as a Michigan State University Extension forester, and to young adults as a Goshen College environmental sciences faculty member and Director of Land Management at its Merry Lea Environmental Learning Center. Now recently retired from Goshen College, I continue to stay active in pursing my life mission by doing consulting work with private landowners and Mennonite-affiliated groups that own land.


    As I reflect back on almost fifty years, I am grateful to witness the Mennonite Church more fully responding to ‘the Holy Spirit beckoning us toward the restoration of all things in Christ’. There are many emerging expressions of creation care by individuals and organizations within the broader church—much of which has been led by the younger generations. While we might struggle to differentiate between what is the work that is ours to do and what is the work that is God’s to do, I have great hope for the future. I have witnessed this hope when engaging with private landowners, college students and camp staff, and supporting initiatives such as Mennonite Men’s JoinTrees. More recently I was gratified to connect Camp Friedenswald, a Mennonite-affiliated camp in southern Michigan, to JoinTrees resources for the afforestation of 13 acres of cropland. (Image left: Adventitious sprout- Dominican Republic)

    So, in my experience, what has ‘hope’ looked like? During my graduate studies I spent time in the Dominican Republic (DR). As with many developing economies, native forest cover was being exploited for its wood to make charcoal for cooking. Mennonite Men’s JoinTrees campaign has been active in countries such as this to reforest degraded lands and support community agroforestry efforts. In the DR I captured an image that represented the ‘hope’ that can be found in the resiliency of nature—vegetative shoots on a tree that had been cut for charcoal production. These shoots developed from adventitious buds. They remind me of the hope found in the scripture commonly read during Advent…. Then a shoot will spring up from the stump of Jesse, and a Branch from his roots will bear fruit (Isaiah 11:1).


  • Living that Matters in Retirement – Cancelled

    Come and experience a company of brothers seeking a meaningful life that matters in retirement.

    Location: The Hermitage
    11321 Dutch Settlement Rd, Three Rivers, MI 49093

    Date: 5:00 Friday – 4:30 Saturday, October 18-19

    Cost: Suggested donation range of $120-150. (Includes room, meals, and Living that Matters: Honest Conversations for Men of Faith)

    Registration: see form below. Register by September 15. Limited to the first 12 registrations with a $50 deposit.

    Flyer: download and print or share the digital flyer HERE


  • Mennonite Men welcomes Jon Zirkle to co-leadership role

    Jon brings a background in agriculture, land conservation, not-for-profit leadership, environmental education, and theological training. Jon is a member of Assembly Mennonite Church in Goshen where he helped form a men’s group. He has an MA in Plant and Soil Science from University of Vermont and is a recent graduate of Anabaptist Mennonite Biblical Seminary with a M.A. in Christian Formation.

    Jon will primarily focus on the JoinMen ministry for men and JoinHands grantmaking for new churches while Steve’s focus will remain on development and the JoinTrees campaign for climate action. Jon will also coordinate growing involvement with Indigenous justice in partnership with the Coalition to Dismantle the Doctrine of Discovery.

    ‘I’m excited to work together with Jon,’ says Steve. ‘He is passionate about integrating spiritual formation, social justice, and creation care with men. With his gifts and experience, Jon will provide strong leadership for our mission to engage men to grow, give, and serve as followers of Jesus for God’s shalom.’

    The job-sharing arrangement was first prompted by Steve’s cancer diagnosis and successful treatment. Of Jon’s co-leadership, Steve believes that, ‘as a younger man Jon will help us navigate the next stage of Mennonite Men’s ministry in MC USA.’

    In addition to working with Mennonite Men, Jon directs Bushelcraft Farm, an educational farm in Elkhart, IN he co-founded in 2020, and has worked for the land trust Wood-Land-Lakes that protects Indiana land from development. Jon notes that his ‘small-scale agriculture and environmental work gives [him] perspective on ways that [he has] seen men find meaningful contributions beyond themselves and find connection to the Earth—God’s creation.’

    Jon is attracted to the holistic nature of Mennonite Men’s intent to be refreshing and challenging by engaging men with a focus on the ways of Jesus. ‘Men who are Mennonite need spiritual support and community with other men,’ he shared. ‘I too was missing deeper community and spiritual support. Mennonite Men truly is helping men grow. It’s an organization promoting healthy, faith-motivated men who are ready to listen, serve, tend to their inner life and outer lives, and walk alongside others seeking justice in the world.’

    Jon brings a vision of reaching younger men with diverse backgrounds and life experiences who are seeking community, friendship, and encouragement to deepen their spiritual lives.

    ‘Many of us men have not felt we have permission or much reason to truly know ourselves—our personality type, our source of pain, our desires, our identities as God’s Beloved,’ shares Jon. ‘This is essential work to invest time in, and needs to happen simultaneously with ‘outer work.’ Integrating prayer, community, and gratitude to God into our work is important, life-giving, and also challenging. I look forward to supporting fellow men in the journey of slowing down, identifying their core wounds, releasing control to God, prioritizing relationships, and seeking community.’

    In his work with JoinMen, he will develop new ways to connect with men through retreats, exploration of prayer practices, activism and justice work, outdoor experiences, promoting men’s groups and individual spiritual care, and volunteering in the community.

    Jon’s leadership will facilitate Mennonite Men’s growing involvement with Indigenous justice in partnership with the Coalition to Dismantle the Doctrine of Discovery. Of this connection, he says, ‘I am inspired to see Mennonite Men get relationally involved with indigenous communities and their struggles. I think many non-indigenous men could benefit from experiencing the power of worshipping outside, singing and dancing together, rediscovering rites of passage for boys and men, and finding inspiration to approach life with greater reverence, gratitude, prayer, celebration, and commitment to future generations.’

    Jon brings ‘tend the earth gifts’ as well as interests in both the internal and external aspects of faith formation that are a huge asset to Mennonite Men at this stage of its ministry to Mennonite Church USA.

  • Miguel Rodriguez Hernandez

    Miguel is an Achí Maya farmer living in the village of Chup, Baja Verapaz, Guatemala. He was born September 30, 1958 and feels that in his 63 years he has been able to achieve progress for himself and his family. His principle occupation is farming, but in addition he is a leader in his community, serving as secretary of the COCODE, the Chup development committee, and as a local health promoter. He is currently secretary of his church council and, given that he can read and write, he has held several positions within his church. He states that these community responsibilities are a way to give thanks to God and fulfill the Creator’s teachings.

    As a child Miguel was able to study only through 6th grade. He remembers having to walk an hour to school without shoes. The school in the neighboring village of Patzocón was constructed of wooden poles and adobe mud and had 40 children of various grades in the one small classroom. The teachers were very strict, punishing any misconduct. Miguel feels he learned there to be very disciplined. When he wasn’t in school he worked at his father’s side growing corn, beans, and coffee. At this young age he learned basic agricultural skills, many of which he continues to use today.

    When Miguel was 16 years old the family’s corn harvest was not sufficient to last the year, and they did not have enough to eat, Manuel and his brothers decided to go to the plantations on Guatemala’s Pacific coast to find work to sustain the family. There Miguel worked planting sesame, picking coffee, and cutting sugar cane. Cutting and carrying sugar cane was arduous labor in heat over 100 degrees. He was paid $1 per day for 12 hours of work, earning $30 a month.

    After the death of his father, he married Manuela who has been his companion for life. Together they have 5 children. Presently he dedicates himself to cultivating corn and beans, helping Manuela with her large vegetable garden, and taking care of their chickens, pigs, and cows. Their farming gives them a sustainable food supply, plus some money for other purchases. He is working towards having a hillside of coffee trees. He has a small coffee tree nursery and he hopes to plant his coffee seedlings there next year.

    Miguel said with conviction, ‘I believe that while we have life there is hope.’ He has struggled all of his life to succeed as a farmer and to be a responsible father and community member. HIs dream is that the members of his community will plant the seedlings he is growing on the mountainsides around his village and continue to care for them and that this will improve the environment for his community.

  • Manuela Avila Velasquez

    Manuela has the important role of midwife in her community. She gives instruction to women who are pregnant and maintains prenatal and postnatal controls. She says she puts her heart and all her experience into giving guidance to the women of her community, and after assisting a birth, she provides instruction on both newborn care and postpartum care for the mother. Manuela has received workshops on midwifery and women’s leadership. Currently she participates in a local committee of women organized to defend the rights of indigenous women and encourage their money making projects. Her prayer is that God will give her more years of life to continue the work of accompanying the women of her community.

    Manuela gets up early to take the nixtamal (corn cooked with lime) to the mill, returning home to make the tortillas and prepare the other foods for the day. She feeds the farm animals and then goes to work in her vegetable garden. For most of the vegetables and herbs she cultivates, she has learned how to harvest and save their seeds for the next planting. If a village woman goes into labor, she drops everything and goes to assist in the delivery, which she understands as her community responsibility.

    Manuela is excited to be involved in this tree planting project because she believes that if things continue as they are, in a few years there won’t be any trees left on the hillsides.

    She and her husband hope that their tree nursery will help to preserve the ecosystem of their community, but she realizes that this is a constant fight. She believes that she and her community must fight to prevent the springs that provide all their water from drying up. She says that planting just one tree has a great significance for her as a woman and a mother. She wants a future where the children and grandchildren of her community will be able to enjoy what she and her husband have enjoyed, a healthy and dignified life, from their own agriculture.

  • Supporting Boys Coming of Age

    Supporting Boys Coming of Age

    Over the past year, parents have approached Mennonite Men about what we might offer for boys coming of age. Parents recognize that current activities—such as sports, clubs, and Scouts—are not the only ways to support their sons’ development. As an organization and through our JoinMen committee, we are considering how we can best serve parents, leaders, and boys who are maturing into adulthood. Are there particular Anabaptist approaches that can be modeled?

    From what I observe, Anabaptists are becoming increasingly aware of the value of rituals—marking time with events or ceremonies. We see ritual traditions such as bar mitzvahs or quinceañeras in particular cultural and religious contexts. Men’s rites of passage events are also gaining popularity. Could this kind of ritual become more widely practiced in a Mennonite context?

    Mennonite Men wants to respond to the needs of parents with boys. This would be an invitation, not an obligation, for boys and their families. Before we move forward as an organization, our board members need time to gather information and explore possibilities.

    For perspective, I spoke with Jesus Cruz, a Mennonite Men board member who serves on the JoinMen committee. I have enjoyed hearing him share about his own formative experiences as a boy coming of age in the Bronx, New York. When he was young, Jesus and his brother attended a Bible club program across the street, led by Mennonites. One day, two women from Fox Street Mennonite visited his mother to tell her about a summer camp at Camp Hebron, located many hours away. They encouraged her to let Jesus and his brother attend, and the church offered assistance to make it possible. She agreed. Jesus was 11 years old when he first attended camp. The experience profoundly shaped him, and he returned for many years, later becoming a counselor and serving at camp with his wife. He went on to become a pastor and served with Mennonite Education and other boards. Today, Jesus is a member of East Chestnut Street Mennonite Church in Lancaster, PA, where he has mentored boys through his congregation. He continues to be sought after for speaking engagements, leadership, and service.

    Jesus and other board members are asking important questions about how to support boys. Jesus asks, “What are parents looking for regarding their boys? How do we help parents, mentors, or other interested community members take initiative?” He wonders if supporting boys and resourcing parents could become a new initiative of Mennonite Men and asks how the board should approach this. “We need to bring more people into the conversation, and board members should be actively involved in this discussion. What role does culture play in supporting boys coming of age? Is Mennonite Men shifting toward a greater focus on young men and boys?”

    These and other questions will be explored at our upcoming in-person board retreat in late March. Additionally, Mennonite Men has submitted a workshop proposal for Follow Jesus ’25 Convention to report findings from an online survey about supporting boys coming of age. We hope this proposal is approved! Regardless, be on the lookout for an online survey on our website, which we will also promote through our listserv and future issues of Engage. Responses to this survey will help Mennonite Men discern ways to support boys coming of age in Anabaptist communities, as well as to support parents, fathers, mentors, and leaders of boys.