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  • One growing church in Goshen, IN helps another in Charlotte, NC

    One growing church in Goshen, IN helps another in Charlotte, NC

    Growth at Assembly Mennonite Church in Goshen, Indiana, is benefiting a congregation 650 miles away.

    When Assembly Mennonite enlarged its facilities, it tithed a portion of the project expenses to aid others.

    A program called JoinHands, operated by Mennonite Men, helps churches that have the resources for major capital improvements share money with churches in need of help buying or building a place to worship.

    And that’s what happened in this case. JoinHands was the conduit to channel the Assembly Mennonite tithe to Mara Christian Church, near Charlotte, North Carolina.

    ‘We feel it’s the right thing to do, for more established congregations to help the newer ones,’ said Steve Thomas, U.S. Coordinator for Mennonite Men. He describes the essence of the program as ‘congregations thinking beyond themselves.’

    The global reach of JoinHands

    JoinHands has delivered grants to churches throughout the world and all over the United States and Canada.

    Thomas figured Assembly Mennonite would want to help other building/facilities programs as it launched its own. ‘I knew they think carefully about their resources and the needs of other churches.’

    As Lora Nafziger said, ‘It’s part of the DNA of the congregation’ to tithe when starting an improvement project. Nafziger is Pastor of Christian Formation at Assembly Mennonite.

    Mara Christian Church, a growing congregation composed mostly of people who moved to the U.S. from Myanmar (formerly Burma), now owns the church building it had rented. The JoinHands grant the church received made that transformation possible.

    Members of the North Carolina congregation are ‘thinking about their lives as people of God. The spiritual vitality there is good for others to see,’ Thomas said.

    Thomas added that Mara Christian Church members invested a good deal of ‘sweat equity’ in renovating the church building it purchased.

    Those who receive JoinHands grants ‘often are people without a history of power and privilege,’ Thomas said. ‘Often, they’re people coming from a situation of real need.’

    JoinHands is patterned after 2 Corinthians 8, in which Paul wrote about abundance and reciprocity, Thomas said. ‘That’s our key text.’

    He added, ‘It’s an Anabaptist perspective – not just a Mennonite perspective.’

    One church helping another ‘is an issue of stewardship, so it linked naturally to Everence,’ Thomas said.

    Everence® church loans have helped several established churches (including Assembly Mennonite) that shared some of the money associated with major projects to aid younger churches.

    Bursting at the seams

    Why did Assembly Mennonite need to expand? Sunday morning attendance has grown by about 20% in the last 10 years, and the once-adequate facilities weren’t so adequate.

    Attendance now averages about 230, and has climbed above 300 several times.

    Nafziger said church members were talking about the need for an expansion when she arrived at Assembly Mennonite in 2013.

    The room used for worship also was the only room large enough for after-worship activities, so chairs were shifted around and tables set up, if needed.

    In other words, the sanctuary and fellowship hall were one and the same. An overflow seating area was filled to the most distant corners for most services.

    That room now is more of a true fellowship hall, as the more than 5,000-square-foot addition includes the new worship space, which features a similar, barn-like beam structure as the older room.

    Diamond shapes are scattered throughout the building in the tile, stone and steel as a physical embodiment of a familiar quilting pattern, Nafziger said.

    Church members did much of the work themselves, with Dana Miller of Dana Miller Building Solutions as general contractor. Miller, an Assembly Mennonite member, also oversaw previous expansion projects there, including a big one in 1994.

    Nafziger said more than 75 church people were involved in various facets of the project. And member Susan Nelson volunteered to serve as project manager.

    The congregation moved into its new spaces in May 2019, and officially dedicated the expansion the following September.

    How did Assembly begin?

    Assembly Mennonite formed in 1974 when several house churches and small groups decided to assemble for worship on Sundays.

    Participants started talking about buying a property for congregational use about two years later.

    In 1978, an empty factory building on South 11th Street was purchased, and members did much of the renovation work to create a space for worship, day care for children and a rental apartment.

    The first part-time staff person was hired in the 1980s and more property was purchased next to the meetinghouse.

    A major building expansion took place in 1994 – a new worship space and three classrooms to be shared with Walnut Hill Day Care and Faith Mennonite Church.

    The Walnut Hill operation – now called Walnut Hill Early Childhood Center – moved to its own building in early 2018.

    Faith Mennonite Church still shares the Assembly building, worshipping on Sunday evenings.

    The Assembly mission statement is: Assembly Mennonite Church seeks to be a dynamic Christian community by together meeting God, who draws us beyond ourselves into nurturing, sharing and living the good news of God’s love as known in Jesus Christ.

    A participatory congregation

    Assembly Mennonite is a bit unusual in that the church has four pastors – all of whom are part time.

    ‘We have monthly congregational meetings,’ Nafziger said. ‘We do everything by consensus.’

    Karl Shelly, Pastor of Community Building and Mission, said Assembly is intentional about having part-time pastors.

    ‘This decision is rooted in its desire to be a ‘participatory congregation’ where many aspects of congregational life are carried out by the congregation,’ Shelly said.

    ‘For example,’ he said, ‘for every 10 sermons delivered at Assembly, pastors might deliver two of them.’ And many aspects of what some might term ‘pastoral care’ are done by Assembly small groups.

    As a less ‘pastor-centric’ church than many, ‘the congregation has made the decision that, at least so far, it does not want full-time pastors and the different kind of authority or reliance on professional leadership which comes with that,’ said Shelly.

    Anna Yoder Schlabach, Pastor of Worship and Pastoral Care, joined the pastoral team in November 2018 and Scott Coulter, Pastor of Congregational Life and Hospitality, joined the pastoral team in October 2019.

    Written materials for visitors note that, ‘Assembly is actually the assembly of small groups, and Sunday morning corporate worship is only part of our life together.’

    Jim Miller is a writer and editor at Everence and managing editor of Everyday Stewardship.


  • Have I mattered? Can I still?

    Have I mattered? Can I still?

    These questions drew men together in a retreat on generativity in later life.

    This Mennonite Men gathering for men in the second half of life was held at The Hermitage retreat center in southern Michigan on November 1-2. John Kotre, Ph.D., author of Make It Count, Outliving the Self, and the PBS series Seasons of Life, led the retreat based on his work as Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Michigan—Dearborn.

    John observed that ‘There’s a creativity that lies between the generations, touching everything from genes to values. We are not mere conduits to the future, blindly passing legacies through. We shape what comes to us, and we have an obligation to shape it well.’ This is the task of generativity— as mature adults to shape what we leave after us for the next generation.

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  • Our New Book “Peaceful at Heart”

    Our New Book “Peaceful at Heart”

    Here’s a book by men for men seeking healthy masculinity.

    This book comes at a time when men and masculinity are in the spotlight. We see many men behaving badly on the news—abusing power, violating women, and mistreating others. But most men I know aren’t like this. In my work as a pastor and with Mennonite Men, I see those seeking to be good men but wondering what that means as we wrestle with issues of gender identity, conventional masculinity, power and privilege, and expectations in the grind of daily living.

    Along with many men, I have questions about masculinity. What kind of man am I? What do I wish for my sons as men? How do I want men to relate to my daughter? What does it mean to be a man? Who are we as males? Why isn’t there more agreement on a description of masculinity? Aren’t we just talking biology? How are men essentially different from women (if at all)? Where can we find healthy models of masculinity?

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  • Healthy Masculinity Featured at MennoCon19

    Just off the press, Mennonite Men presented their new book at Mennonite Convention in Kansas City, MO, July 2-6, 2019.

    At the Mennonite Men luncheon with nearly a hundred men and one woman, Steve Thomas, U.S. Coordinator for Mennonite Men, introduced our new book, Peaceful at Heart: Anabaptist Reflections on Healthy Masculinity (Institute of Mennonite Studies and Wipf & Stock). Strong interest was expressed for this resource for men and churches.

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  • Not because they were male

    Not because they were male

    Don Neufeld shared his reflections on the themes of masculinity and Anabaptism at a “Probing the potential for peace” discussion series held at Grace Mennonite Church in St. Catharines on May 3.

    His insights came from years of experience working for House of Friendship in Kitchener, Family and Children’s Services in Niagara-on-the-Lake, and for almost a decade as a private-practice therapist in St. Catharines. He was recently appointed coordinator of Mennonite Men in Canada. Read more.


  • JoinHands Blesses Eden Life Church

    The four language communities of Eden Life International Church of Kansas City, Missouri, gathered for a combined service of celebration on April 28, 2019 to receive the JoinHands grant of $30,000 towards the purchase of their meetinghouse.

    The church began under the sponsorship of South Central Mennonite Conference in July 2016 with the calling of Ethiopian church planter, Pastor Omot Aganya and his wife, Hanna. Read more.


  • Strong and tough: Reflections on Masculinity from Africa

    ‘Strong’ and ‘tough.’ Males across many cultures often identify these common traits to describe ‘real men.’

    In our North American retreats on healthy masculinity as we examine the so-called ‘man box’ of dominate masculinity, ‘strong’ and ‘tough’ are heard repeatedly. These same words were used at recent men’s retreats I led in South Africa and Tanzania.

    How are we to understand that ‘strong’ and ‘tough’ are so frequently used to describe what ‘real men’ are like?

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  • Giving back: the story of Grace Mennonite

    Giving back: the story of Grace Mennonite

    In May 1999, Grace Mennonite Fellowship, Lacey Spring, Va., received word that Mennonite Men, then a General Conference Mennonite organization, named us as recipients of a $30,000 grant. This grant was to be used to support our first church building project… It empowered us to move forward, trusting God would provide all our needs, according to his riches in Christ Jesus.​ Read the entire article.

  • Charlotte Mara Church Purchases Building

    Charlotte Mara Church Purchases Building

    ​In September, 2018, the Mara Christian Church of Charlotte, North Carolina, bought a nearly 100-year-old church on 3 acres of land southeast of Charlotte. After five years of praying, fasting, intensive saving, renting, and with help from Mennonite Men, they are praising God for a permanent place of their own! Read the entire article.

  • How Then Shall We Live?

    How Then Shall We Live?

    ​A Week-long Wilderness Adventure

    Taos, New Mexico, September 8-15, 2018


    Mennonite Men had its first week-long immersion experience in the wilderness of New Mexico to address the question, “How then shall we live?”

    This was led by Todd Wynward, wilderness educator and Mennonite minister for creation care, and author of Rewilding the Way: Break Free to Follow an Untamed God.

    In response to an open invitation from Mennonite Men, ten men from across the country came together for this wilderness adventure to explore how to live as followers of Jesus in a world where our lifestyles impact people and the planet.


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